Why don’t we make some sound your soles at home! (It’s me, underneath inside your home.) Bottom society has started to become quite something™ using the internet as of late! But what can it truly suggest to be a bottom? The reason why has got the culture decided bottoming is actually synonymous with becoming scared to inquire of for what need? And exactly how does someone begin determining as long as they like bottoming?!

With these concerns rattling around our thoughts, demanding solutions, Drew and I also knew there seemed to be singular person we can easily head to for a rounded, passionate dialogue about bottoming: The Gay Chingy AKA Chingy Nea, AKA underneath Supreme. Chingy is just one of the most readily useful people i understand composing and tweeting today, so that as a bottom me, Im honored to call her my personal leader. Chingy helps us tease aside just what it methods to be a bottom, the reason why she dislikes “smol bean” bottom part culture, your body as hole, as well as your human anatomy as

entire

. It really is an extremely stunning talk, easily do say so my self! Please realize that i realize that we say “gorgeous” approximately three thousand instances this episode, and I am pursuing assistance for my condition. (the problem is speaking like 57 year old white homosexual man.)

And! Recently’s online game involves me speculating if the challenging plots Drew describes participate in a motion picture or an aspiration she had circa 2006. It is not easy!

PROGRAM NOTES

+ Study Chingy’s
Bottom Manifesto
, follow her
on Twitter
and
IG
!

+Here is a list of all the films that received utilized in the woman game:

• 
  The Seventh Seal
  
  (1937)
• 
  Bringing-up Kid
  
  (1938)
• 
  
  Pierrot le Fou
  
  
  (1965)
• 
  Dark Swan
  
  (2010)

+Watch Anna Faris perform the greatest work of her job in

Smiley Face!

+Let

Shohreh Aghdashloo chat you to definitely rest while dressed as Chrisjen


Avasarala


from

The Expanse

because you deserve that.

+Cindy Wilson for the B52s is quite hot and honestly? “Love Shack” nevertheless whips!

+
Robert Mitchum
, stone cold fox.

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EPISODE

Chingy

: I’ve simply already been bottoming since I have was, I am not sure, as far back as i will keep in mind.

Drew

: Cue Rags to Riches from

Goodfellas.

Chingy

: dating back i will remember, I always planned to be a bottom, no, but method of

[intro performs]

Drew

: Hi, I’m Drew.

Christina

: I Am Christina.

Drew

: Introducing

Wait, Is It a night out together

?

Christina

:

Hold off, So Is This a night out together?

is an Autostraddle podcast aimed at the one, the sole the most significant question of your instances: hold off, So is this a Date?

Drew

: And, wow, i must say i just froze up truth be told there.

Christina

: I was like, oh crap, I was designed to state one thing! [laughs]

Drew

: i am truly quick on banter, my personal head merely… The truth is that I became checking out over my personal online game notes, which we’re not at yet because we still have to present ourselves. Thus, i will make an effort to stay focused on one job at a time.

Christina

: Focus up!

Drew

: i’m called Drew Gregory, i’m a writer for Autostraddle, and a filmmaker, and a trans girl.

Christina

: Hi, i’m Christina Tucker, forgot my finally name for a hot minute, no big deal. I’m additionally an author at Autostraddle as well as other locations on the net, a podcaster, a gay black colored woman. That is types of it, dog, that’s myself.

Drew

: Everyone loves it. Okay, today we-

Christina

: Now the game.

Drew

: are we able to play the game?

Christina

: are we able to get right to the video game? I will inform you’re thrilled, I could reveal’re just shaking.

Drew

: Thus, i am maintaining a dream journal since 2007, and the premise of the game is actually-

Christina

: I did not understand this about you!

Drew

: Yes, it isn’t as latest today, we familiar with write down all my dreams and today it really is only if anything really sticks. But, the idea for this game is actually, am I explaining the plot of an aspiration I experienced when I had been a teenager, or was I describing the land of a film that I enjoyed once I had been a teenager?

Christina

: Oh son, ok.

Drew

: very, the way in which it’s going to get is we’ll always describe it as an aspiration as well as in one person. So, whether it was

Superstar Wars,

I’d resemble, i am in space and I also’m battling included in a rebellion, there’s a wicked  guy that is wearing a black robot suit and it also looks like he is my dad. That’s the way I’ll describe it, the manner by which we explain goals, but sometimes it might be an aspiration, often it’ll end up being from a film. Prepared?

Christina

: I’m anything, I don’t know that I’m ready, but let’s rock. Let’s see what I’m able to perform right here.

Drew

: Okay, i am on a beach and I see this weird guy dressed up in black colored. He tells me which he’s Death and in addition we can take advantage of a game to choose basically reside or if he requires me. We manage to get away, but every-where I go, everyone is sick and I feel like dying continues to be following me.The merely happy part happens when I fulfill a theater troupe and they’re a lot of enjoyment.

Christina

: This,I think, is actually an aspiration.

Drew

: this could be Ingmar Bergman’s

The Seventh Seal

from 1957.

Christina

: this is certainly will be a proper gotcha on CT’s classic flick understanding, because the things I realize that Drew, in your adolescence, had not been carrying out was actually enjoying films that i’ll acknowledge. Now, i am method of wishing that I’ve seen not one of them. I think that is to be more fun personally.

Drew

: Another one, I’m ending up in my children several Italian American gangsters. The gangsters needs that we give more than some money, but my family and I were able to get away. We hightail it through all this work cold terrain, on your way we satisfy an actress and relate with the lady. We result in a suburb. In my opinion we are going to begin a fresh existence with each other until she requires me to a big mansion, and I also understand it is one of the gangster. It actually was all a trap, the gangster comes so there’s a confrontation. I eliminate him, the fantasy comes to an end because of the actress doing a musical quantity.

Christina

: Is it a movie?

Drew

: this will be an aspiration I’d in 2008.

Christina

: Okay, wow. Boy, yeah, i assume i must just remember that , its 2000, it’s old school Drew brain. That’s what I have to remember.

Drew

: In addition like, just what films was we seeing during the time and how much did that effect my dreams?

Christina

: Well, yeah, obviously a lot!

Drew

: A fun truth is that I was in fact, I didn’t include this simply because I was thinking this could provide out, although gangster was Tony Soprano because I was viewing

The Sopranos

in 2008. So, that’s a great little fact. Okay, next one, We have a significant assignment, but this hot girl appears and begins annoying me. I do want to end up being together with her, but I also need to get might work completed, so I inform their to leave. She keeps following me personally. Out of the blue, a leopard seems within my place and that I need certainly to spend the rest of the fantasy wanting to get the leopard. I’m nonetheless truly anxious, We never finish might work, but about the lady is hot.

Christina

: it has as an aspiration of yours, it has is a Drew fantasy.

Drew

: This Really Is Howard Hawks’

Bringing Up Kid

from 1938.

Christina

: No, but that is an aspiration you have, that’s the the majority of Drew dream I’ve ever heard. Today at this point, I’m only gonna be rewriting movie record, to suit my whims.

Drew

: Great, Everyone loves that. Okay, i am at a party and I also you shouldn’t love any individual there. At long last, we see this girl, I once had a crush on and now we choose leave together. We head to the woman house, but they are chased off from this group of males that are wanting to kill the lady. We become on a beach therefore may seem like we are going to be ok until the males look for you. She eventually ends up being into this some other guy, and so I grab cartoonish dynamite and decide to strike myself personally up

Christina

: Movie.

Drew

: this will be! This is exactly Jean Luc Goddard’s

Pierrot ce Fou

, from 1965.

Christina

: Have not viewed, but that feels like a ding dang movie in my opinion.

Drew

: Great, i really like it. There’s a narration describing an odd ship like framework that is impossible to destroy. I want on a retreat around the framework, the refuge is sort of movie theater connected, kind of religious. I have a crush with this lady during the escape, but she has a boyfriend. Amid the shows and traditions, there’s lots of drama between me and also this girl along with her boyfriend, it finishes beside me alone. There’s been a sequence revealing that watercraft design is actually impractical to destroy because a mechanical supply fixes it into the evening.

Christina

: that would be anything in a lot of means, i’ll say movie once again, you need to?

Drew

: it really is an aspiration from 2011, that did have narration from somebody else, you are sure that, it occurs!

Christina

: This is really great promo to own an aspiration record, because I believe enjoy it could be enjoyable basically could keep in mind my hopes and dreams this way.

Drew

: no body really likes when you describe your goals for them. I really do however, and I also’m the pal, so if you should write down your own goals and tell me, i might like to hear about them.

Christina

: Okay, that’s great to hear.

Drew

: I have two more.

Christina

: Okay.

Drew

: i am in a beautiful garden with a team of buddies, each of us appear to be awakening from becoming drugged. We’re forced to bathe in an acid that drains pigment and we also become blond and blue-eyed. The folks in charge begin teaching you to eliminate, it turns out this place is being run by a crazy dictator, we resist obtaining entirely brainwashed. Absolutely this girl indeed there We have a crush on and I also persuade their to escape with me, while escaping I get recorded and killed, but the woman gets away. When she simply leaves the prison, she finds out we’re in the center of a forest so there’s no place to visit.

Christina

: Film.

Drew

: that could be 1st dream in my own dream record from, we mentioned, “2007.” It’s actually 2006.

Christina

: Wow.

Drew

: i thought it was interesting that we pass away within the dream, but the other person goes on on. However now, there is some unusual sex stuff going on here, and that I’m probably must think of that one for some time.

Christina

: certainly do that.

Drew

: Okay, i’ve an additional.

Christina

: Okay.

Drew

: i am considering the possibility to end up being a dancer, my mother insists i will not have the ability to do so. Absolutely this some other woman into the tv series exactly who I think is hot, but i am stressed she’s going to change myself. I’m having difficulties in rehearsal, but end up making using the woman, we hook-up. This really is hot, but I believe myself personally dropping control, we get back to the dance show. My own body is apparently morphing into something different, I’m worried that i will damage.

Christina

: this is exactly a film.

Drew

: Thus,

Black Swan

.

Christina

: Yes, that will be

Black Swan

, definitely.

Drew

: Have you observed

Black Swan

? That has been one I was thinking you’ve viewed.

Christina

: I have seen

Ebony Swan

, I… Fun reality, I went on a romantic date with a person observe

Ebony Swan

.

Drew

: Wow.

Christina

: merely straight situations i did so.

Drew

: that which was that like?

Christina

: Weird, it actually was unusual.

Drew

: Did you just like the flick? Performed he just like the motion picture?

Christina

: i do believe, I got currently viewed it, In my opinion I found myself like, “let us get view it once again.” I do believe, I was very pro

Black Swan,

as well as directly heterosexual explanations, truly.

Drew

: Sure, okay.

Christina

: And, he had been like, “That was weird.” And that I ended up being like, “Oh well, we’re not browsing always day.”

Drew

: Wow, well If only him the very best, I’m hoping he’s somewhere successful. Thank you so much for playing this video game with me.

Christina

: Wow, i am thus pleased we went two for however lots of we did thereon.

Drew

: Not awful.

Christina

: perhaps not awful.

Drew

: You did a lot better than Elise did while I wished to find out if this is a functional game that could work, and she had been my personal guinea pig. Very, she only had gotten one correct.

Christina

: reasonable adequate.

Drew

: Should we proceed to our primary subject on the week?

Christina

: let us get into it, let’s fully grasp this unique visitor in.

Drew

: Well, i do want to first claim that all of our main subject with the few days is actually bottoming, so we could simply have one very unique guest.

Christina

: It’s just one individual.

Drew

: is it possible to kindly introduce your self?

Chingy

: Hi, I’m Chingy Nea, also referred to as The Gay Chingy. I am a Writer, Filmmaker, and gasian leather dyke muppet. Im additionally The usa’s number 1 bottom.

Christina

: Yes, In my opinion whenever we were talking about subject areas and now we’re like, “we can easily mention bottoming there’s actually singular person we could have in the pod to achieve this, there is only one person who is quite virtually the Supreme.”

Chingy

: Thank you for acknowledging, it feels good to possess the greatness acknowledged, thank you

Christina

: Yes, therefore’ve done fantastic work, and here we are identifying it.

Drew

: I would like to know as soon as you feel just like you became The usa’s best bottom. When had been that a word and a label and an identity which you really held onto?

Chingy

: Well, so I frequently only say, “I’m The Bottom Supreme.” Because, exactly who cares about The usa?

Drew

: Certain.

Christina

: reasonable sufficient.

Chingy

: Yeah, I think that I always really was great at bottoming, but in 2017 or something like that, we decided to go to a play party that was just for fem top sadists beating myself upwards for six to seven several hours right, plus it was only me personally, and I was actually like, “Oh, I’m best which is ever before already been.” And, In my opinion from there, i simply held escalating and being, wow, I’m so fun to view. Wow, I’m very entertaining as a bottom, this can be wow, everybody exactly who reaches finest myself is really so fortunate. And, it really moved following that, I think, then I wrote an article known as I’m A Much Better Bottom Than You. Listed Here Is Exactly Why. It had been particular a manifesto, it actually was a bottom manifesto.

Christina

: Yes, can confirm.

Chingy

: And, people have actually said, “It really is altered the way they take a look at gender.” And, i love that many. It’s the one post back at my website that I written here. I have composed at

Vice

,

Teen Style

,

Vulture

—

Autostraddle

ended up being the initial place we composed, in fact. But yeah, this is the one blog site back at my web site, if you’d like to try it out.

Christina

: I favor a solid brand, i enjoy understanding a brand, and I believe’s actually gorgeous, merely, brand name handling of a bottomy your self. I believe, that’s really stunning observe.

Chingy

: Thanks a lot, I managed to get my basic authorship possibility at

Autostraddle

because I was currently talking about getting a base, being poly, being actually strong into getting a leather dyke. And because subsequently, I started to discuss a bunch of other things, but getting bottom part great just types of may be the one through collection of it all.

Christina

: Yes.

Drew

: In addition feel like you are a very active base and in addition in the manner you talk about, and speak about, and that I presume knowledge bottoming that you are extremely energetic. Whereas, In my opinion there’s a lot of the queer area, possibly, particularly the lesbian community, that possibly thinks about bottoming as… I’m not sure-

Chingy:

Passivity

.

Christina

: Mm-hmm

(Affirmative)

.

Drew

: Yeah.

Chingy

: Yeah, I often point out that absolutely much less bottoms than individuals think are soles. I think there is a big change between becoming a bottom and simply not knowing or asking for what you would like. In my opinion those are a couple of completely different things that folks conflate.

Christina

: i’d have to agree, I also believe the way that you explore bottoming is actually, I mean, why don’t we just say it, really much less inconvenient versus way more and more people speak about becoming a bottom or determine with bottom part tradition. Because, i actually do think exactly what a lot of people say explicitly or non clearly merely, Im idle plus don’t proper care to complete any type of activity, task, et-cetera, I would like situations completed to me personally. And, basically have to seek that in any way, that affects my personal emotions. And, you are so excellent therefore powerful at becoming, these are the things that Needs, bring them to me and I will rock your globe. That’s attractive in my experience.

Chingy

: thanks, after all, that is what you should do becoming proficient at merely one thing, you have to put yourself available and try and come up with mistakes and acquire hurt a little bit, and, I don’t know, study on it.

Christina

: i believe which is good information, frankly.

Chingy

: I’ve only been bottoming since I have was actually, I don’t know, dating back I can bear in mind. [laughs]

Drew

: Cue “Rags to Riches” from

Goodfellas

.

Chingy

: Yeah, dating back to I’m able to recall, i wished to be a bottom. No, but type, when I ended up being 13 or 14, I became already examining BDSM web pages and lesbian SADOMASOCHISM websites. Thus, I wasn’t under any delusions as to what I became in regards to, I was having girls we dated in highschool choke myself on, we realized the things I wanted. And thus, that standard of awareness recently given myself quite a while to know what i would like and learn how to get it.

Christina

: Gorgeous, Drew, provide me your feelings on bottoming.

Drew

: Well, I’m in fact really excited to fairly share this because I believe like in 2019 {when I|as I|while
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